Life

On August 12, 2017, a “Unite the Right” rally in Charlottesville, Virginia, erupted in violence. Waving Nazi flags and shouting, “Jews will not replace

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about navigating holidays after loss, in the past few months. This year, I’ve spent less time thinking about what balance

We were just a few months into our marriage, and I found myself curled up in bed with tears trickling down my face, thinking, “I want to go home.

I watch a lot of British murder mysteries on television, and if I’ve learned anything it’s this: There’s a lot of murder in England, and it’s often to do with wills.

I’ve been talking about women and marriage and name change for the last decade—long before I knew what the term emotional labor was. And let me get my

When I tell someone I don’t know well that I’m engaged, the first question they ask is, “What’s his name?” and then inevitably, “What does he do?

It was 11 p.m. in Porto, Portugal, in a charming riverside apartment with glorious sweeping views of the water and cliffside. I had just spent the day

When I was at my first job, I had a boss a few years older than me who was entering the dating world for the first time. This boss had been raised very

It’s a fact that I am a much more stylish dresser at thirty-eight than I was at twenty-eight or eighteen. This stands in direct opposition of the message

These days, being a wife and being a mother are pretty big parts of my life. But if we’re being honest, they were both things that I really didn’t get until